Winning

There is a word that a lot of us use, especially men, and tend to be attracted to this word and concept, and the word is 'WINNING'..'Everyone wants to be a winner'. Universally, we all want to be winners.It feels good to be a winner...And the more I analyse it I realise that there are two types of winning.One is the type where you get the thing that you set up to get, you achieve the end result that you wanted.The other type of winning is that someone else lost, you beat the other person and what i found is that if you spend your life trying to beat everyone else and not trying to achieve what you're trying to achieve, you may have a lot of those wins, where you beat other people ...and then you might wake up one day and realise 'I've been beating all these peope but I'm not getting what I want'.On the other hand, if you figure out what you want in life and dedicate yourself to it, you find your own path and really stay on it and you achieve the things you want, that is how you WIN.I think you'll look back and say 'you know what?it really doesn't matter whether i beat anyone else, that is irrelevant'.Ce credeti?